After hitting rock bottom motivation wise this week, you guys have provided me with some great advice – the key piece being “make a list.”
Funny thing is – I had a list for the summer. On my phone that crashed a few weeks ago. When it was replaced, all the info on it was gone, so my list went with it.
And thus, my motivation, which was already hanging on by a perilous thread, disappeared. And I learned more about clones than anyone ever needs to know. And government conspiracies.
BUT now that I’m out of Orphan Black episodes to watch, I’m trying to claw my way out of the bottomless hole of boredom and lethargy.
I started out by cleaning my room… a little… and raiding my bookshelf for books to sell. After that burst of energy, I realized that I really did need to redo my summer goals list.
Know why?
Because I know the power of a list.
I have 23,308 reasons why lists work – that’s the change in my net worth since I started making a list of it and my financial goals in September 2013.
To be honest, I just looked that sucker up now to write this and even I didn’t expect that. Can we go over how insane that is? That number covers starting out with some student loans still hanging over my head and a year of living in New York City.
Lists work. At the end of every accountability update, I’ve listed goals. Even that first one noted that the goal was to max out my IRA and save up $5,000 in my emergency fund by the end of the year.
And you know what?
Sometimes you achieve your goals and sometimes you have to re-evaluate them, but making a list keeps them present. I didn’t hit that $5,000 goal in 2013, but when I made my list for 2014 it was still on it and I did finally make it last year.
Writing down a list doesn’t set it in stone. You’re not suddenly married to the idea. But you are going steady with it now. There’s some commitment there. If you break it off, it will be thoughtfully, with a decisive strike through or erasing on the list, not because you just hid from the situation and didn’t answer its phone calls for a month.
This analogy has gotten a little weird.
Resolutions are a lot like this too! Trust me, I’ve always been a scoffer at people and most of their New Year’s resolutions – my own included. Then last year, Michelle over at Fit is the New Poor asked a few other bloggers to send her their resolutions. I thought, “why not?” and sent her over a list. Throughout the year, I slowly worked on that list and got quite a few things done and the things I let go, I really thought about why they were initially important enough to make the list and whether or not I was ready to part way or put them on hold.
So now I’m putting it out there. This week’s goal:
- Rewrite the summer goals list.
- Cross something off the summer goals list.
I just made one last night. 🙂 and will be working on it today.
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Awesome – I really think there’s no task too small for a list. The only problem is being motivated enough to make the darn thing in the first place 😛
Mel @ brokeGIRLrich recently posted…Side Hustle Steriods
I need a list too. I’ve started so many things, I don’t even know how many balls are in the air right now.
Stefanie @ The Broke and Beautiful Life recently posted…An Adventure in Financial Principles
I really would’ve thought you were the master of the list! I don’t think I know anyone who has as many balls in the air as you generally do.
Mel @ brokeGIRLrich recently posted…Side Hustle Steriods
I make lists ALL the time but I am old school with my lists and I actually write them down because there is nothing greater to me than actually physically crossing something of a list, especially if it has been on the list for a while.
Shannon @ Financially Blonde recently posted…5 Smart Money Tips for Millennials
I love that feeling too. I have a bad habit of losing them when they’re actually on a scrap of paper though. For a while last year when I was trying to lose weight, I had an actual list taped to my refrigerator with my weight on it when I would weigh myself each week. Physically writing it down was really helpful.
Mel @ brokeGIRLrich recently posted…Side Hustle Steriods
I’m like Shannon. I write my lists down. I love crossing things out!
Michelle recently posted…How To Save Thousands On An Engagement Ring
I have always been a list type of person, just not the type to follow the list. In fact everytime I write a list, while I’m creating the list in my mind I’m wondering why, for I never stick to the list. I know….I need an intervention.
Petrish @ Debt Free Martini recently posted…Creating My Own Financial Fairytale
Haha, different strokes for different folks, but if you’re still somehow getting all your stuff done, maybe even the action of thinking through the list at some point is being helpful?
Mel @ brokeGIRLrich recently posted…Side Hustle Steriods
I seem to be able to get nothing done without a list, a weekly “to do” list and a list of goals. This week I didn’t make a list and my production levels have been very low (not even a mere blog post was published this week!)
Hayley @ Disease Called Debt recently posted…Financially Savvy Saturdays #94
I hear you. I’m pretty sure I could actually take over the world with a proper list. On the flip side, week’s without lists…. there are really just so many TV shows that can be watched.
Mel @ brokeGIRLrich recently posted…Side Hustle Steriods
I love writing lists, but I love even more being able to cross things off a list. I find it helps me to de-clutter and de-stress when things get hectic. I use the ‘sticky notes’ app on my computer to keep most of my lists.
I was so excited about the sticky notes app on my computer when I got it! But then all the sticky notes actually made me nuts – but I try to keep my desktop very clear. Actual post it notes I love though. Seriously a scary level of love – possibly from all the years of being a stage manager.
Mel @ brokeGIRLrich recently posted…Side Hustle Steriods
I’m so glad that you have found your motivation again. Maybe though you just needed a little break. Have a great weekend!
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Thanks, Vickie. I think there’s definitely a rock bottom moment when you realize you haven’t really moved in 3 days and that’s really not ok.
Mel @ brokeGIRLrich recently posted…Side Hustle Steriods
I have a habit of writing a list and than not use it. I’m working on it because I do accomplish more when I use one. I want to get to the point where I write my to do the night before.
Sylvia @Professional Girl recently posted…30 Milestones By 30 (#11-20)
I’ve definitely heard of many successful people always writing down their goals for the following day the night before. Seems like a great habit to pick up.
Mel @ brokeGIRLrich recently posted…Side Hustle Steriods
Great advice. It has been a long time since I’ve written a list. I am so busy I just do. Time for another list – it may help me feel better.
Savvy recently posted…Switching my Goal to Financial Independence
I definitely always feel more in control when I’ve got a list.
Mel @ brokeGIRLrich recently posted…Side Hustle Steriods
I like how this ends with a list to make a list. 🙂 I’m a huge list believer, too. Our dreams turn into achievable goals when we put them to paper.
Femme Frugality recently posted…Poor Money Management: Fair Education Funding in PA #FairFundingPA
“Our dreams turn into achievable goals when we put them to paper.”
You’ve got a poet’s soul, you know that, FF?
Mel @ brokeGIRLrich recently posted…Side Hustle Steriods
“Writing down a list doesn’t set it in stone. You’re not suddenly married to the idea. But you are going steady with it now.” Love this! I make lists all the time and it helps keep me on track. Sometimes, however, the lists start multiplying like tribbles and I have to consolidate them and get it back under control. It’s good to have goals and tasks in front of you, but not so many that you get overwhelmed and give up.
Gary @ Super Saving Tips recently posted…Invest Like You’re Cooking Barbecue
I agree – I was reading some other blog by a woman who was often overwhelmed and said she would always keep all of her goals in front of her, but pick the top 3 to prioritize each day and as long as at least that got done, she felt good about her day.
Mel @ brokeGIRLrich recently posted…Side Hustle Steriods
Does that include my daily “to do” list that keeps growing instead of shrinking? Lists do help me stay focused, but I think I need to learn how to remove the crap.
Tre recently posted…My Juice Cleanse
Haha, tell me about it. It seems like when they grow that much, it’s tons of little things. I like to consolidate all that crap into one free day and destroy it. Also, it feels great to cross a ton of little things off a list too.
Mel @ brokeGIRLrich recently posted…Side Hustle Steriods
I love lists! I find them so helpful.
Kayla @ Shoeaholicnomore recently posted…Craziness and What’s Going On?
I love lists! Whether it’s a to do list, goals, steps to accomplish my goals, etc….lists help me stay motivated and focused!
Heather @ Simply Save recently posted…Facebook’s “Send Money” Feature
I’m probably borderline obsessive about lists. I have various lists going constantly, segregated by the various parts of my life–home, work, blog, volunteer gig, etc. I rely on them to help me know what I need to work on each day. And crossing stuff off a list always feels great! 🙂
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Seeing your goals in writing is so important and motivating to put you in the right frame of mind to achieve those goals. I live by lists! Lists are my way of staying on track and being organized. It is a feeling of accomplishment to cross items off that list too.
Aside from daily todo lists? Ha. Probably a pros/cons list about a new job offer. Good reinforcement for the gut 🙂
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I’ve been procrastinating on putting together my list of goals. I know the power of a list, but I’ve been avoiding doing so for some reason. This is my reason to start it up again!
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