How I Failed At Scheduling My Personal Time (And Why I’m Cool With It)

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How I Failed At Scheduling My Personal Time (And Why I’m Cool With It) | brokeGIRLrich

I may be in a sort of unique position that my job eats up 100% of my time when I’m out of town but provides me with quite a few days off in return. Like currently… seven weeks of days off.

This has been a common theme during my years of cruise ship and contract life too, so to not just turn into a useless slug that binge watches TV, I try to set some goals and put some order to my days.

I recently read a great post from the Apex Money collection called How I Got More Done, Reduced Stress, Increased Focus, and Mastered Time Management in 10 Minutes A Day.

I also reminded me a little of J. Money’s post over at Budgets are Sexy about What I Learned Working Like Benjamin Franklin For a Week.

Apparently, schedules work.

The Benny Franklin one is like super regimented but the dude got a lot done.

I already know I get a lot more done when I plan ahead. I am totally a set my clothes out, make my lunch the night before person.

So, I decided to experiment with one week of trying to schedule my down time so I can be more productive. I’m taking 10 minutes each night to map out how I want the following day to go.

Day 1

Last night I spent 10 minutes and sketched out this schedule.

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Work ON the blog post – sorry, folks, this is not the only typo on my daily schedules. 😛 

Solid start… I didn’t set an alarm clock. I’m no worried when I wake up though since I pretty much always get up between 8-8:30 AM on my own, if I wasn’t out super late the night before.

Not today though, of course. It’s 9 AM. The plan is ruined.

I attempt to restart the schedule. It doesn’t happen. The day actually went like this:

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That’s food, by the way, not foox… which could be taken a myriad of incorrect ways… 

Everything in me rejects the notion of scheduling every minute right now.

This is partially hilarious because at my regular job, I absolutely do schedule every minute.

Maybe that’s why? Apparently freelance Mel rejects this deep down in her soul.

Maybe if I spend the first 10 minutes of the day trying to schedule it instead of forcing the previous night’s plans on myself?

Day 2

A little more on track? At any rate, the day started on track.

Here was the original plan I sketched out after getting up:

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Here is what happened. I derailed the whole thing when setting up QuickBooks took way longer than anticipated.

Then I also remembered Tuesday is the worst day at the gym because of all day swim lessons and I’ve been 3 days in a row, so skipping a day is no big deal.

The day fell apart again.

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Day 3

I scheduled it to look like this:

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This happened:

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I do not like this system. We’re done here.

I did learn a few things though.

If you need to be at maximum productivity, it’s great to schedule out every minute of the day. I do it for work all the time:

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Proof I can make a real schedule. And, barring a legit reason for deviating, I can also stick to the schedule. 

But in reality, you don’t need to be at maximum productivity every second of every day. Eff that.

If it’s ain’t broke, don’t fix it. My old system of just a to-do list that I tackle when I feel like it through the day works way better for me.

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I split it between things I have to do and things I’d like to get done. To be fair, most of life at this moment is just stuff I’d like to get done.

Then I do as much of it as I feel like.

I also feel like I was pushing myself to schedule in things I knew I should do, but didn’t really feel like doing – and didn’t really matter if they got done.

I should be better at reading my Bible, but until I make my whole brain get fully onboard with “this is how we start our days” I can put it on 8,000 to do lists and it’s still not getting done.

I have had get better at making macarons on my to do list for, oh, six years? I’m not sure why I thought Tuesday would suddenly be the day.

Mindset matters way more than any list or schedule.

The one take away I found was a by product of this experiment though. I do currently spend arguably a little too much time binge watching iZombie. (Though I’m also in the middle of three weeks of totally nothing to do because I was supposed to be on a European cruise that fell through…. so the boredom is real.)

I wouldn’t hurt to have a secondary to do list of one-off things that I can fill into the boredom gaps, sort of like my summer bucket list.

So, if it’s imperative you get sh*t done, yes, a minute by minute schedule of the day, that you largely stick to, can work wonders.

If that’s not completely necessary, a loose goal based list works way better for me.

What productivity methods do you use?

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