Recently I’ve been trying to be a little more positive about life. It’s super easy to get bogged down in the missteps and the problems I’ve caused myself, but everything isn’t super bleak. Along the way, I’ve made some choices that were actually pretty good.
- I Owned My Student Loan Debt
I took on my student loans head on from day one. I hated them, but I never hid from them. I always had a plan on how to get rid of them and whenever I could, I paid extra towards paying them off.
Without these loans, I never would’ve gotten to live in England for a year, study theater in a totally different environment, and made some really cool theater with an amazing bunch of students.
I also don’t know if I ever would’ve taken my finances so seriously. Those loans were the first time in my life that I ever felt like another person or company sort of owned me and I was accountable to them. I had to make choices that made sure those payments got made, even if I didn’t want to. That feeling of being owned was pretty much the worst ever, so every decision I’ve made financially since then has been in the direction of trying to make sure it never happens again. I like to think I would’ve gotten just as serious about my finances even if it didn’t happen, but I’m really not sure I’d have the same fire about financial stability without it.
- I Did a Bunch of Research and Bought Some Stocks
I definitely own a bunch of index funds, but the real stars in my portfolio are in the individual stocks. I prioritize buying index funds each year because they seem to be a very safe bet – and I’m all for building most of my future on safe bets… but I’m definitely a high risk tolerant investor, so buying individual stocks is okay with me. I buy in areas I understand (currently online shopping, soda and death) and when the price seems right. This method hasn’t failed me yet and those individual stocks have made a nice positive difference in my net worth in the long haul, more than balancing out when one of them isn’t having great year.
Specifically Hillenbrand, Inc. I love this company guys. I feel like there are still a lot of areas they can expand into and I’m pretty sure they’re going to take over the entire death industry while no one is really paying them much attention.
- I Have an Emergency Savings Account
Early on I prioritized creating an emergency savings account. It has given me such peace of mind, it was worth it for that alone. However, my emergency savings account has made sure I actually go to the doctor when I should, instead of putting it off because of how much it costs. I makes sure I visit the dentist if I really need to but can’t quite cash flow it at the moment.
Even better, after funding the lower levels of it, I decided $10,000 was my magic number and since hitting that amount, I’ve even been able to use it to fund a better tomorrow. I was able to take jobs that required relocating because I could tap that fund to make it happen. I could take jobs that would give me exposure to a new skill I needed even if the pay was terrible for a little while.
- I’m a Low Maintenance Lady
Let’s talk about a few of my favorite things. I like watching Netflix. I love board games. I prefer to stay in and have friends over. I like camping.
When my clothes fit well, I like to keep them forever, even if I have to mend them.
I’m irrationally emotionally attached to my car, so even though she’s a bit old and battered, I want to drive her until it’s impossible to drive her anymore because I can’t imagine getting rid of the car that moved me to San Francisco after a horrible breakup after college and climbed those crazy steep streets with me for the first time or the car that lived in train yards with me for a year when I lived like a hobo after joining the circus the first time.
I really don’t need a lot to be happy, which saves me a lot of money.
- I Stared a Side Hustle And Always Have a Plan B
Maybe this is number five and six?
I started this blog as a side hustle. It’s location independent so it works great while I roam the world, working my regular gig. It’s pushed me to learn more about personal finance than I ever would’ve guessed and introduced me to the best group of folks on the internet – all the other personal finance bloggers.
I also knew that working in the arts was a bit of a gamble, so I’ve always had fallback plans in case it didn’t work out. I’ve kept my substitute teacher’s license renewed each year in case work falls through. I stay on overhire lists in nearby theaters in case I need to pick up work as a technician. I’m ok with working all sorts of little gigs like brand ambassador work or transcribing to make ends meet.
Very good choices! I probably didn’t do as many good financial choices as you, but I also have an emergency fund. My best financial choice was to focus on savings rate. It was made too late, but I’m working on getting back the lost time.
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It’s never too late to start moving in the right direction!! Congrats on making the change.
Fantastic idea. For me, I’d say:
1. Started investing (a must for women)
2. Overpaid my mortgage
3. Stopped my husband finishing the whole chicken so we can spread the meat over multiple meals
4. Stuck within our wedding budget
5. Spent money exploring some beautiful places
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I don’t buy individual stocks because I don’t know which ones will outperform. Yes, you can buy Facebook, Amazon, Netflix, and other high beta stocks. But those also go down faster than the index when the index goes down.
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I agree with all of your decisions. Although, I am a bit more for stocks than I am for index funds.
For me a good decision that I made was tracking my expenses by hand. It allowed me to connect and be more aware of my finances. It really helped me get my financial house in order.
Great article and thanks for sharing!
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I bet! There are a lot of studies about how writing things down burns them into your brain better… I used Mint pretty religiously for a while to make sure my budget was running well – the lazier girl’s version ;o)
It’s a good idea to learn from your mistakes, but we have to balance that out by rewarding ourselves for the good decisions we make! A few things I’m happy about….manually tracking all our expenses, deciding to get rid of our timeshare, making extra principal payments on our mortgage, and paying off some expenses I had financed at 0% interest (like dental expenses).
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Love this! FWIW, I think a plan B is important no matter your field. Here are mine:
1. Didn’t take out student loans.
2. Built a fat emergency fund that sustained me and my ex spouse during a 4-5 month period of unemployment.
3. Have built financial resiliency by always being ableto pivot when outside factors affect my plans/goals. I.e. like you I’m willing to work doing whatever if it means avoiding financial ruin.
4. Paid off $10k in education debt in 6 months.
5. I don’t care about the latest fashion trends, or anything trendy for the most part, and am good at allocating the money some people spend in that area towards things I truly value.
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One of the best personal finance advice is to have some money set a side for that rainy day inform of emergency funds. Thanks for sharing this helpful tips. Visiting from Financially Savvy Saturday linky party
Two good financial decisions: I married a man who is responsible with money–while two don’t leave as cheaply as one, two together live for less than two apart. Part of that decision has been staying with him–divorce is expensive.
The other good decision has been to set my lifestyle below my means. Not stretching to make that house payment every month means more money for other things, and less worry if something bad happens.
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